I couldn’t resist my sister’s husband

Dear Pastor,

I want to tell you something that I am not proud about. I was living with my sister and her husband. Her husband has a brother who was in love me, and my sister's husband had eyes for me too.

We were all living. Sometimes when my sister was on night duty, her husband and I used to have sex. There were times when I was left alone, and when his brother came home, he brought me fast food. I used to enjoy it because, where I come from in the country, I could not afford it.

I regularly had sex with my brother-in-law as well as his brother. They did not always use protection. The one who married my sister said that he enjoyed having sex with me withouta condom. However, I got caught because I got pregnant and had to return to rural.

I do not know which one of these men got me pregnant. When I went to the country, I had sex with my old boyfriend. I told him that he is the father of the child and he believed me. However, now that the child is growing up now, he does not look like my boyfriend. His sister told him that he is a fool because he is taking care of a 'jacket'.

I know that the child is not his, but I don't know which one of the brothers is the father of this child. My boyfriend asked me if I had another man in Kingston and I told him no. I told him that he got me pregnant the weekend when I came back to the country and we had sex. He said that is good enough for him. He does not have any children at all, so he is glad for this child.

My sister saw my son and she told me that my son resembles her husband. She asked me if I am sure that her husband is not the father of the child, and I told her 'no way'. I also told her that she should never think that I will allow her husband to have sex with me.

She asked me if I would do a DNA test so that she could be sure it is not his child. I told her husband about my sister's suspicion. He confronted her and told my sister that that thought should never cross her mind.

I know that, if this child is not his, it is his brother's child.

I should let you know that I got married to my boyfriend and he has been trying hard to get me pregnant. I told him that he should just relax, because he has one already.

I am not proud for what I have done. My son is carrying my husband's name. Do you think I should do anything about it?

C.

Dear C,

I would not be surprised if your unfortunate behaviour comes back to haunt you. You should not have been having sex with two brothers. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Some of you girls cannot be trusted. Your sister trusted you. You were living with her and yet you were having sex with her husband. How can you do that to your sister?

It seems to me that you don't have any shame at all, and you don't have good morals.

Your unintelligent boyfriend in rural Jamaica accepted the child as his. He was trying his best to impregnate you and has been unsuccessful thus far. He is there thinking that he was able to put in a lucky one and he got you pregnant.

You fooled him, you have deceived him.

I wish you well, if you are able to use your seared conscience.

Pastor